romaneticize your pain

what if i tell you that your pain is accually upgrading you to the best version of you .

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so our parents meet they fuck we born [unfortunetlly] we laught a little we cry so often we write we love then we luckily die ,and between the temporary happiness and the temporary sadness there is life . some of us they dont even exist they suffer they die without reaching anything and sometimes we also die while living but we all have some time to experience in this life .

first you need to accept the fact that there is no life without problems you’ll always have at least one issue to handle during a week many in one year , so at the end of a certain year you post im proud of myself for this and that

before i used to compaire my own problems which they are why i used to think im misreable with other people happy days as if they are not handeling they’re own battle in private, same with me someone out there are scrolling in my profile or watching me always laughing in stories and think she got no pain to handle while im about to commit self suicide in private . accepting that we all suffer doens’t decrease your own suffering but it makes you less intrested with comparing and more intrested with solving yours

some people are obssessd with other people not because they like them but because this is how they escape themeselves and they’re own lives , this how they refuse the responability of carring they’re pain and they’re own dreams so they simply turture themeselves by watching someone else accually living and achiving his or her goals .

in the book the subble art of not giving a fuck mark mansone said that first you will always have a problem so your job is to work so hard so your future problems become better than the current ones for example now you are poor in 5 years your problem must be being confused which brand you should buy from your clothes louis viton or versace and i consider making my problems better my purpuse is life , he also said that any thing you wish will bring you a certain problem for example you wish to be a great writer on substack and to have a greate audience and many active readers ,now your problem is not having followers and your job is to keep creating good articles , you got the followers the wish became true the new problem is to keep on creating and making something new for them before u used to not write for weeks now you can’t because your audience needs you now you are responsible . another example you married the love of your life now your responsibility is to keep this marriage alive….

so baby girl ask yourself what’s my problem what is the wish i made that bringed me this issue what is the lesson what is my responsability how can i enjoy solving it .

every problem is a test a lesson that will upgrade you to the best version of you and every problem you ignore wil keep you locked in that stage . don’t stay there wondering why me why is this happening to me why im i alone or why life is treating me like this honeeeyyy you are the universe favorite child romanticinze the pain hold it in your bones then trun it into something beautiful make something out of it ,

sometimes in life or often bad things happen to us for example your best friend is gossiping about you and you dont always agree and she is maybe jalouse of you so you had a fight with her and now you are alone in a coffeshop leraning how to accept being with yourself and learning more about you and somehow a few days later you meet another girl who shares a lot of your intresres and you both become to close or the crush you wish you can talk to is dating someone else and accedentlly you hear from a friend that he’s so greedy and so the universe protected you from him , other times you question yourself why cant i vibe with someone while your energy is to pure to align with theirs . girl accept somethings in life based on trusting your heart if you beleive that you deserve what you wish for then you do be responsible on your journey and cherish the life you have because at the end of the day it’s just you and your daily thoughts and silly life and no-one else is there to carry it with you be so busy so rooted in your self that no-one’ presence or absence can disturbe your peace . belive that everything is working for you . buy youself a journal and write about youself you’ll se how inresting persone you are write about your fears your goals the tinny things you are gratful for because time is wallking through us darling and we must slow it down around us by writing to experience life twice .

you’ll be fine like you always did and you will realise in the future that everything is happenning to you now is happenning for you , not because you are a bad persone or because god is punishing you but because you’ll be greate one day and you must solve this now , refusing pain or love or whatever life gives us is refusing to live so feel everything and enjoy everything .